Warning! Last Minute Valentine’s Gifts for Your Special Man


Last year was my first married Valentine’s day… actually it was the first Valentine’s day in my entire life that I had a Valentine. I met my husband after Valentine’s day in 2013 and married him before the year was over!

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So, last year, I thought way ahead. I created a calendar with pictures from the previous year and our wedding. This year, I was not feeling well, so I didn’t create one. Honestly, it was a ton of work to upload all of the pictures last year and then arrange them. It took much longer than I anticipated.

So, if you’re running a little late and you don’t think your man would appreciate flowers and candy like you would, here are a few ideas!

Special Beverages: My husband really loves soda with cane sugar, so I pick up a few at World Market. Also, he’s never not liked a build your own six pack or a bottle of Chimay beer from World Market, either.

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Etsy Prints: Ok, I know this one seems a little self serving, and might take a rush order if you’re running too late, but last year, I snagged a deal on this Shih Tzu print and framed it, too. My husband loves our dogs – and our second one had just come home as a puppy when it was Valentine’s day last year. So, I got him this as a present from them.

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Also, I won this print, but if you’re better with graphic design than I am, framing something like this would be a sweet present, plus looks nice on the wall!

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Small Gestures: Sometimes it’s several small gestures that are more meaningful than one large one. A note by the coffee pot (if you’re like us–I go to bed later, but he gets up first and makes the coffee), a small bag of candy (or those addictive little Debbie Cakes) in his briefcase for him to find later, or just something he likes are good places to start, at least for my husband. It’s more about just getting him something small that he’d like, rather than something super romantic. He’s not always the romantic type.

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When in doubt, though, you should give your husband a puppy. Everyone loves those.

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As you can see, Josie recommends Shih Tzu puppies for presents.

 Did you plan ahead? Are you doing something last minute?

For anniversaries and things like that, we usually pick an activity, because we would rather create memories than accumulate “stuff,” but Valentine’s seems like a good time to pick up the soda at World Market (we don’t go there often because of the location) or show a small gesture.

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Rethinking Hospitality


Rethinking

I know that I see a ton of great blog posts that address opening your home and serving food as a way of showing Biblical hospitality. There are a lot of verses that support the home as the center of Christian hospitality. (Here is a great resource!) As we just passed Thanksgiving and are getting close to Christmas, I would like to address some other ways of thinking of hospitality.

There are a myriad of reason that people are unable to leave their homes or travel to your home. Some of these people may seem perfectly healthy, but invisible illnesses or social anxiety can contribute to isolation. According to the CDC 1 in 2 American adults suffer from a chronic illness. Not all people are housebound, but sometimes it can be difficult for people to make it to dinner after working, on a bad day, or a flare in symptoms. The CDC says that a quarter of people with chronic illnesses have significant limitations in their daily activities.

I would encourage people who read this to think about their peers, their neighbors, coworkers, and members of their churches. They may be people that you interact with on a daily basis–people who you see every Sunday morning–people you wave to as you go to work. What you might not realize is that attending church on Sunday morning wipes them out for the rest of the day; working a full day is more than they can do without damaging their health; or that you wave to them in the neighborhood, and they really wish that you would be a friend because being sick is very lonely. As I get older, I know that family is so very important, but there is still the 26 year old in me who wants friends. I want girls to laugh with, talk about make up with, and generally have a good time. My “good time,” though, looks a lot different than it did before I got sick. Now a good time is a movie night, not trying to get to three Christmas parties in one night.

I know that when I was in middle school, my Sunday school class would go visit the church members who were homebound; however, there are many people who are much younger that need some extra attention and care. I know that no one purposefully leaves their 20-something friends out, but not every 20-something has the physical capabilities that other people have.

Tips for Hospitality:

+ Be understanding when someone has to cancel at the last minute.
+ If you know someone is sick, offer to bring them food. If they don’t need food, just the offer can bring them a lot of joy because they won’t feel abandoned.
+ Try to plan events that would allow a sick person to be more comfortable. A dinner that is drop in or not on a Friday night would be a good alternative.
+ Ask your friend how you can help them! Maybe they would like a Christmas tree, but decorating the tree might pose a problem. Bringing cookies, sharing some hot chocolate, and decorating a tree would be very fun. They may need help shopping for Christmas gifts, wrapping presents, or even unpacking the Christmas decorations.
+ Meet your friend for coffee/hot chocolate. Sometimes it is nice for a sick person to get out of the house, but they can’t be gone for long. And one on one might be better for some people.

+Think about non-food centered, restful activities:

-Christmas movie night
-Ornament decorating (this allows for sitting down and standing up as needed)
-Assembling gifts for charity (example: Operation Christmas Child, etc.)
-A relaxed game night or afternoon. Something like Apples to Apples or Scategories. Laughing is great medicine. Prolonged strategy games can be too exhausting.
-Anything that is on a Saturday or Sunday afternoon might be easier for people who have a hard time getting up and are exhausted by the evening.

People suffering from chronic illnesses are also likely to be very isolated. So, if someone who is chronically ill has you in their life, they are very blessed. You can easily increase the blessings in their life by being purposeful in showing them hospitality in the season of celebration.

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Happy Easter!

Happy Easter!

I wanted to share this beautiful song with everyone for Easter.

My husband and I had the privilege of attending the album release show for Ellie Holcomb’s As Sure As The Sun. She shared that she actually wrote this song one Easter, while in the recording studio. Not only was this already one of my favorite songs on the album, but I love the story behind it.

I hope you enjoy it as much as I do 🙂

 

And finally, I want to leave you with some words from Dietrich Bonhoeffer, about Easter, which have been on my heart, since personal suffering has been consuming most of my thoughts:

Good Friday and Easter free us to think about other things far beyond our own personal fate, about the ultimate meaning of all life, suffering, and events; and we lay hold of a great hope.

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