About 10 months… actually.
Before my last post on books, I wrote about my diagnosis with Ehlers Danlos Syndrome. The year before I was diagnosed was very hard because I was in so much pain and not working. Doctors acted like I was insane, but I knew that the pain was real. I tried to end my life 6 months before I was diagnosed, so while I was trying to blog in 2015. It was very hard to leave out of my blog. I felt really ashamed, but the hospital was able to adjust some medication errors that happened due to moving from SC to DC to NC.
I am only talking about this to help end the stigma because I reached out for help to 6 different people who only shrugged it off because it was uncomfortable for me to talk to them about it. I only got medical attention after I took the pills. Chronic pain, especially undiagnosed, is a burden because doctors are not always compassionate.
Without the diagnosis, treatment, and help of counselors who took the time to understand things like sleep hygiene is meaningless when you have hypersomnia, related to EDS, I might not be alive, still.
However, while I am physically trying my best to make friends, be productive, and live a life that I can be proud of, my body doesn’t always keep up. So, I spent my non-blogging time in counseling, physical therapy, traveling 3 hours to see my EDS specialist, 1.5 hours to get Botox for my dystonia, and all of the medical appointments that come with being chronically ill. I haven’t read as much this year. I have spent more time watching TV. But that’s ok. That’s what I needed.
I would love to start blogging again, if people want to read again! I want to educate people on EDS. I want to talk about life. I want to talk about make up. I want to talk about friendships. I want to talk about my amazingly cute dogs.
My third wedding anniversary was two days ago (I woke up with a horrific virus! What a present!), so I do want to leave you with a few of my favorite photos that we had taken by our friend, Elli, who is the photographer behind Due West Photography in Charlotte, NC. She does everything from professional head-shots to weddings to engagement photos! We did ours at the beautiful Big Rock Nature Preserve in Charlotte, NC. If you are looking for a great place for engagement photos and a great photographer, get Due West Photography and go to Big Rock Nature Preserve! We LOVE these.
The photos commemorate what hard times Brian and I have been through, but how we made it to the other side, much stronger. We couldn’t have picked a better anniversary to capture our photos. It was also nice because we didn’t have engagement photos, since we had such a short engagement.
If you follow my Instagram, I’ve posted a few on there! I couldn’t contain my excitement with how well they turned out. If you’ve taken engagement photos, I have a new respect for you. Picking outfits is hard!
Thanks for taking time to read this, look at the photos, and stop by. I hope to keep updating and writing, so that you’ll come back soon!
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